Why him and not me?

When going on post for a doctor's visit or an eye exam.....why is it that our husbands get better service then us? I was waiting in the waiting room and a soldier was called and the nurse said, "good morning sir and how is your morning been?" That same nurse called my name and I said," good morning" and she just looked at me and smiled......she just smiled!! Can you believe that....I thought to myself !!YOU MEAN OLD BAG!! But I just smiled back and waited in another waiting room for my doctor how had the bed side manner of a fly. Why my him and not me??